Loving him the wrong way

Yesterday we had a dinner party, One of my close friends asked me "Why do women feel like that need to rule their men"? I think this is goes way back to women independence days.. that was the 60's right? When women get into a relationship with a man, they want to keep the same type of control they had when they were single. But you want to be in a relationship right? That is my question, to those women. Sometimes it has to be a give and take and sometimes women need to know when to play their position. Let a man be a man and you my dear always be a woman. So loving him the wrong way can be a lot of different factors :

1. The woman wants to be the man in the relationship

2. Woman that does not want to compromise.

3. Knowing when to shut up. ( I have this problem myself.)

4. Listening to your mother, your friends and your sisters about your relationship can be really harmful. If the man is not physically abusing/emotionally abusing you, there is no reason to call them every time you have a argument.


At no way do I think a women should be subservient to a man, but I think we all need to know what our roles are in the relationship.